If your love is number 4, he will be very hard-working. And it will be useless if you get angry and ask him to work less.
As he is a materialist, he will always have some business in mind to increase his net worth.
Therefore, the best you can do is help him save money, as he will be very happy when he sees his economic achievements.
Do not worry if he does not join you in your dreams, if you are e.g. a number 2.
His feet are firm on the ground and everything he dreams of will become a reason to work hard to achieve it.
He will demand his children responsibility and that they build their own future. He will not accept people who just stay in their dreams.
Surely with him you will have everything but something good you can do is help him build your economic future. He may even submit himself happily to methodic saving. And even more intensively if he sees the results of his work.
He will not be very romantic, even more, if this number is the total, he will be almost not romantic at all, unless in his natal chart there are strong aspectations of a Sun with Neptune .
He is the builder, the one who will help you have your feet on the ground when you fly high with your thoughts. He will always be very responsible.